~!~ Are You Lonely ?? ~!~

Recently, I got an opportunity to be out of my home for two months; in Pune. During these two months, I got a chance to experience a different side of life.

You must be wondering, aren't these words "different side of life" confusing or meaningless or to which side of life they refer to ? Well, this side of life is LONELINESS or BEING ALONE.

When I was in Pune for those two months, most of the people I came across led me to deep thinking that how loneliness has damaged or damaging their lives.

Most of the people whom I came across were my room-mates, who are away from their homes for quite a long time. I felt that most of them have become WEAK. I call them "WEAK" not because they are physically weak, but they have become weak "EMOTIONALLY". The reason for their weakness is that they are not able to cope up with their long loneliness.

These people have left their homes from the time they started pursuing their higher studies and afterwards due to employment didn't get back to their families again.

Being away from their families or loved ones for so long, tends to distract them towards short term relationships, bad peer group, drinking and other bad "habbits"; which instead of decreasing their loneliness rather increases it.

I use the word "habbit" just to explain that people start with these activities casually or for experimentation, to get rid of their loneliness, but in due course of time; get stick to them and experiments become their habbits.

It is a human tendency that once you are alone, you tend to experiment with the things or activities which are easy going or available without much restriction.

It is really not easy to deal with the phase of loneliness, but one who can sail away in this tough time becomes real masters of life. It requires strong will power, continuous support from families or someone with whom you can share your feelings or thoughts..

Human beings are social animals which means that they need to be someone with whom they can share their thoughts, feelings an interact; otherwise the consequenses can be very damaging.

It cannot be commented over here that what can be done to get rid of this loneliness, as everyone's life is different and it needs tobe  left to the person only to decide. But it can be suggested that out of the many things needed to fill this gap of LONELINESS, some of them are TRUE LOVE, CARE and above all support of FAMILIES.

Friends, in this fast moving and dynamic world, do give a second and ask a question to yourself and your friends that ARE YOU LONELY ?

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“When we truly realize that we are all alone is when we need others the most”

Ronald Anthony

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~!~ सपने ~!~ The Journey Continues ~!~ A Poem

 ये सपने कहाँ से आते हैं ?

बिन मांगे किसी को सुख,

किसी को दुःख दे जाते हैं|

 हमारा इनसे है रिश्ता गहरा,

हर सपना साकार हो,

बस यही होती है सबकी इच्छा |

सपनों की कोई कीमत नहीं होती,

ये न सस्ते, न महंगे होते हैं,

जो इन्हें पूरा कर सकें ,

ये बस उनके होते हैं |

सपने सभी के होते हैं,

सपने तो बस अपने होते हैं |

इनसे कभी भी रिश्ता नहीं टूटता,

ये तो बस पलकों पर सजे होते हैं |

एक दिन चलते चलते मुझे,

एक सपना मिल गया,

वह कुछ कहता, उससे

पहले मैं कुछ बैठा |

मैं बोला मेरा भी तुमसे रिश्ता है,

तुम शायद मेरे भी हो,

यह मुझे लगता है |

सपना बोला-

मैं हर उस बीज का हूँ,

जो पौधा बनना चाहता है |

मैं हर उस फूल का हूँ,

जो खिलना चाहता है |

मैं हर उस गरीब का हूँ,

जो अमीर बनना चाहता है |